| Location | Rotherham South Yorkshire |
| Age | 64 years |
| Date of Birth | 8/1943 |
| Date of Death | 11/2007 |
| Visitors | 468 since 22/11/2007 |
| Creator |
Noreen Pepper wife of the late John Pepper passed away 11/11/07 at 04.45am aged 64. She lived with
her partner joey in a little bungalow in Thrybergh. Rotherham, south yorkshire. She leaves behind 4
Daughters, Karen (me) Julie, Susan and joanne, she also leaves 3 brothers, Pete, Dave and Ken and 2
sisters Dawn and Gill. She had lots of grandchildren and great grandchildren.
My mother had breast cancer and had had a mastectomy, they then found that she had had bone cancer
in her spine, for which she was having radiotherapy, and was waiting to have chemotherapy. On Monday
5th November she was admitted to Rotherham general Hospital to sort out her pain, i spoke to her a
couple of times on the phone, and she said she was feeling much better. On friday 9/11/07 i spoke to
the hospital who told me my mother had deterioated ands that i ought to go through, following
conversations with my aunty, i went through there, i spoke to the consultant who said it was not the
cancer that was causing these problems (it was her breathing) her imediate family sat with her until
the small hours of saturday morning, she had come round a little and was talking to us, i went home
at 1.30am to let her rest, next morning i went back, and she was in obvious pain, the nursing staff
sorted this and she slept most of the day, at 18.30 i went home because she was sleeping peacefully
and it had been a uneventful day, we were playing the waiting game (sounds awful but its true) i
left messages that if there was any further deteriation i should be contacted immediatly. At 3am
sunday morning my phone went, we rushed back to the hospital, my mother died peacefully at 4.45am
that morning.
what i havent said already is that until 4 months before her death, my mother and myself had been
estranged for about 3 and a half years, for reasons i wont go into here, there is a moral to my
story, no matter what no matter how or why, try to make up with the people who you care about, for
once they have gone you cannot do it, i have suffered great guilt for this past week, im hurting
too, They say time is a great healer, for that i will have to wait and see.
" I always say the past is dust. By thinking of it and brooding over it we cannot change the
past or free ourselves from guilt. If we have done something wrong, it is past. Let us think of the
immediate future and allow it to grow into the immediacy of today. "
Rest in Peace Mum now your back with your mum and dad, your husband john, your own children that
went before you, and all other people who have passed away. xxxxxxx
For a Special Mum
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Sending All My Love Always X x X
one year on...
a year today nan and yet is seems like yesterday...i miss u so so much....
i wish i had seen u more often than i did especially in the last couple years...ya know today was weird we went to me mums and mike said..oh my god what is that smell....he said it smelt like moth balls..n mike had only seen you once...it was strange...
i wish i could see u again, speak to u again, touch u again, i would give anything...
there is no where to go to remember you by other than on here, that is so wrong!! y should one person be able to hold everything and keep it away from people that love you!!
missing you the way i do as taught me a lesson no matter what i will always keep in touch with my family who i love so much. i wish you was still here nan...i miss you everyday...you should be here seeing ryan and amy grow up..we could have fetched them on bonfire night just like we (me, lisa & john)used to...we used to have so much fun...
i was looking thru pictures the other day..n there u was.... y cant u still be here today nan...n grandad...i miss u so much no one realises...
one day, i hope we will have some where to go, somewhere to lay flowers......until then this is your place, this is where i will go...
love u always
Becky xxx
Big hugs
Karen thinkin of you today i send hugs from grimsby to mexbrough...Lets smile all day sis mum would like that.We will in time have somewhere to lay a flower.If you and ant jill go to nans grave,ask nan to give mum a big hug from me plz...thinkin of you 2day all always......
Missin our mum so so much
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If heaven had a telephone id ring you up 2 say how much we all miss you every single day.
Today is about memories that will never fade away,no matter how much pain i want it to stay....
love you always xxx thats to dad aswell xxxxxx
mum
A year has passed mum. some person must think she is mighty good cos she got you ashes, leaving us with no where to go, or so she thinks!! cant write ay more at moment mum cos im so angry, but she wont win.......
Missing you mum.
Mum, we miss you so very much
On each and every single Day;
And not just then, but every minute,
Since you went away.
You were the center of our lives
Before your soul passed on;
It’s just so hard for us to believe
That you are really gone.
But we celebrate the life you lived
And all the things you gave us;
Our wonderful memories, Mum, of you
Are the things that will comfort and save us.
Please think of us, as we think of you
With hearts so full of love;
We’re looking up at you, sweet Mum,
As you look at us from above.
Also remembering Dad(23/11)...
love and miss you both
JO, Dunc & Kids
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A year has gone
Mum i feel silly sometimes chatin away on here to you.If only heaven had a telephone id never be off it,only now do i realise i didnt phone you up enough....I so want to hear your voice see you smell your moth balls(if i had2)hahah...
I miss you so much.
Its a year today since dad came for you.
Love and miss you so so much....
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I love you
a year tomorrow
I cant believe it is a year tomorrow since you passed away...the time has gone so quick...
I miss u so much n wish i could turn back the clock...
love u always....until we meet again...
love becky xx
I love you may come to mind so easily,
Yet are so often words we leave behind,
Saying 'please forgive me' could have changed our lives,
Yey are still words we leave behind so oft,
Alas I say these words today,
Yet uttered too late they came,
Regret fills my being once again
For the words we leave behind in vain . . .
a year today
today has been a year
that you have passed away
I will try not to cry
like I did that day
sometimes its a little hard
because the love I had for you
was so unconditional
I didnt want it to be true
but now i know the facts
that you are here in soul
I have come to reality
that Its something I cant controll
if I could bring you back
its something I would try
just to say "im sorry" lets have another try
I dont understand the reason why
you where my mother
and that will always remain
celebrating our birthday will be hard
as losing you still leaves a little pain
but as a year has passed
I would love to stand on your graveside
and give you pink roses
that you may have to save
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