Noreen Pepper

1943 - 2007
LocationRotherham South Yorkshire
Age64 years
Date of Birth8/1943
Date of Death11/2007
Visitors759 since 22/11/2007
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Noreen Pepper wife of the late John Pepper passed away 11/11/07 at 04.45am aged 64. She lived with her partner joey in a little bungalow in Thrybergh. Rotherham, south yorkshire. She leaves behind 4 Daughters, Karen (me) Julie, Susan and joanne, she also leaves 3 brothers, Pete, Dave and Ken and 2 sisters Dawn and Gill. She had lots of grandchildren and great grandchildren.

My mother had breast cancer and had had a mastectomy, they then found that she had had bone cancer in her spine, for which she was having radiotherapy, and was waiting to have chemotherapy. On Monday 5th November she was admitted to Rotherham general Hospital to sort out her pain, i spoke to her a couple of times on the phone, and she said she was feeling much better. On friday 9/11/07 i spoke to the hospital who told me my mother had deterioated ands that i ought to go through, following conversations with my aunty, i went through there, i spoke to the consultant who said it was not the cancer that was causing these problems (it was her breathing) her imediate family sat with her until the small hours of saturday morning, she had come round a little and was talking to us, i went home at 1.30am to let her rest, next morning i went back, and she was in obvious pain, the nursing staff sorted this and she slept most of the day, at 18.30 i went home because she was sleeping peacefully and it had been a uneventful day, we were playing the waiting game (sounds awful but its true) i left messages that if there was any further deteriation i should be contacted immediatly. At 3am sunday morning my phone went, we rushed back to the hospital, my mother died peacefully at 4.45am that morning.

what i havent said already is that until 4 months before her death, my mother and myself had been estranged for about 3 and a half years, for reasons i wont go into here, there is a moral to my story, no matter what no matter how or why, try to make up with the people who you care about, for once they have gone you cannot do it, i have suffered great guilt for this past week, im hurting too, They say time is a great healer, for that i will have to wait and see.

" I always say the past is dust. By thinking of it and brooding over it we cannot change the past or free ourselves from guilt. If we have done something wrong, it is past. Let us think of the immediate future and allow it to grow into the immediacy of today. "



Rest in Peace Mum now your back with your mum and dad, your husband john, your own children that went before you, and all other people who have passed away. xxxxxxx

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11.11.11.

you would have made something of this day i just know you would!!
someone up there was looking out for your son-in-law these past few months, i dont understand what or why, but he pulled thru and is gaining stregnth every day.
but mum its been 4 years tomorrow since you passed away, it seems like it was yesterday only, you have missed so much mum, i love you and always will xxxxx

Karen (Daughter)

November 10, 2011

happy mothers day

happy mothers day mum miss ya xxx

Karen (Daughter)

April 3, 2011

Happy Mothers Day

Sending you Hugs Love Kisses
on this your special day
love miss you so much
xxxxxxx

Joanne (Daughter)

April 3, 2011

hppy new year mum love and miss ya xxx

Karen (Daughter)

January 1, 2011

`*.¸.*´please pass this heart around in memory of all our loved ones at Christmas time that have sadly passed away, they may be gone but never ever forgotten. Merry Christmas to all our sleeping angels xxxx Love to you all in heaven
love u forever mum always in my heart and mind xx

Karen (Daughter)

December 25, 2010

you always loved this time of year mum, trimming up and your dam lights and windows etc etc, it looked like santa`s grotto in your house lol, you wouldnt be suprised to know whose got all your lights and christmas decs, but we dont need matierial things like they seem to do, joanne and i got our memories and thats all we need xxxx

Karen (Daughter)

November 26, 2010

Gone to soon

"Gone Too Soon"

Like A Comet
Blazing 'Cross The Evening Sky
Gone Too Soon

Like A Rainbow
Fading In The Twinkling Of An Eye
Gone Too Soon

Shiny And Sparkly
And Splendidly Bright
Here One Day
Gone One Night

Like The Loss Of Sunlight
On A Cloudy Afternoon
Gone Too Soon

Like A Castle
Built Upon A Sandy Beach
Gone Too Soon

Like A Perfect Flower
That Is Just Beyond Your Reach
Gone Too Soon

Born To Amuse, To Inspire, To Delight
Here One Day
Gone One Night

Like A Sunset
Dying With The Rising Of The Moon
Gone Too Soon

Gone Too Soon
Love you and others We hve lost xx

Karen (Daughter)

November 18, 2010

it only feels like yesterday that u were taken from us nan. i know i have said this before but for the benefit of others i will say again, i am so sorry i was not around as much as i should have been especially in ur last few years. i love u so so much and always will do. Sleep tight nannan until me met again.
R.I.P and look after all my other angels that have been taken from us xxxxx

Becky (Granddaughter)

November 11, 2010

Thinking of you mum 2day and always xxxx I love and miss you so much xxxx Jo xxx

Joanne (Daughter)

November 11, 2010

Even though you're gone
I never feel alone

Cause I know you'll be with me always
Through good days and troubled ways

I wish you were here, but it's okay
Cause I know I'll see you again someday

Where ever you are I hope your happy with me
And I'm going to try my best to be what you wanted me to be

Mum I love you forever and always
And I'll be by your memorial today xxx

Karen (Daughter)

November 11, 2010
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